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Persons I’m thankful for

June 16, 2008

Persons I’m thankful for:

I’m lucky I got Wonderful Persons in my Life. Through ups and downs of my life, through my happiest and saddest moments, I can count on them. So here, in return, I want to dedicate this portion of my blog to let them know how thankful I am to have them.

1. Jepoy. One truly good man. My husband, my best friend, my all. I can’t just say thank you to him coz no words can describe how deeply thankful I am to have him. For all the support, love, understanding and all the positive words I can think of. Jeff is my everything. I love him with all my heart.

2. Baby Angel. You have no name yet. Your daddy and I are so happy and excited to see you soon. CAn’t wait to hold and hug, my child. Surely, you will complete our lives. We love you. We will take care of you.

3. My parents – especially to Mama. I am so blessed to be your daughter. Thank you for all the support. Blaming me was not the best option right now, instead you accepted me with open arms. I love you as always, Mama. I promise, I will be like you to my child- Loving and understanding mother. Thank you for welcoming my husband too. I can’t just say thank you enough.

4. To my husband’s parents. Thank you for welcoming me to your family since day one. You were really great! I promise, I will take care and love your son until the end of time.

5. My brothers and sisters, I have not talked to you in person about this. But for sure, you know it already. I will still be your ATE. I love you all.

6. My husbands sisters. Thank you for accepting me as part of your family. Don’t worry, I will take care and love your one and only Kuya and of course your pamangkin.

7. My friends. College friends and officemates friendships. For supporting me, for all the advices, for making me smile always.

especially to Brattinella’s ever!.

-Sheki
-Elj
-Reyn

friends
-Mona
-Jhen Leron

college friends
-Lhen
-jenet Betito
-Marj

for the rest who are not mentioned. you know who you are already! thank you…

A message for a friend

May 29, 2008

Seems that every couple I know is facing the hardest trial in their relationship ever. I could almost hear everyone talking about the latest break ups in town. Its becoming a trend these past few months. Well, its up to you if you will go with this latest “trend”.

One thing I learned is to be grateful and give all the sweetest love you can give without limit, without holding back of your feelings, for you will never know, after all of the years, you’re gonna wake up one day alone, hugging nothing but a cold wind and kissing a teardrop realizing that it will never be the same again.

This blog is gettin’ serious already. So here, just wanna share somethin’ nice. It’s about my good friend (and her jowa), whom I prefer not to mention their identities and the every detail of their story. I do not want to put her private life in the eye of the judgmental public.

A simple yet so adorable girl, who is so similar to me when it comes to love. She’s willing to sacrifice everything for the sake of love. She’s not martyr though, as what you may think she is. Like normal girlfriend, it came to a point that she almost had given up and wanted to end the relationship. Just when she thought it’s over for them and that love no longer exists between them, comes a a brighter day for them.

Cliche as it may seem, it’s true that HONESTY is still the BEST POLICY. She honestly admitted to her boyfriend everything that has been bothering her lately, everything she’s feelin’ bad about him, though it hurted his boyfriend a lot. Her honesty, made his boyfriend love her more. They ended up the conversation realizing that they don’t want to lose each other. And all is well that ends well.

This message goes to you friend…

I’m happy for the both of you, friend. Hope your relationship would last forever. Be strong. Never ever forget to ask for God’s guidance. Take care Always, “Anik”.

Love you…

From your kapwa Anik.

summer fun with da G- girLS (gorgeous girLZ)

May 8, 2008

we do’nt wanna miss summer…

who wants to miss summer, anyway?

so here we are….

super swimming ang mga G-Girls (gorgeous girLZ) hehehe!

enjoy…enjoy…enjoy……

visit http://jeffrhiz4ever.multiply.com for more pictures….

Backstreet Boys Fanatic ever…

May 4, 2008

My being a backstreet boys fanatic strikes again…Oh how I miss my boys. hahaha!

While I was browsing on the net, I saw their pictures. Still remember my elementary and high school days. I am really a big fan of them. I would even buy their huge pics and post ’em in my room; borrowed cd’s and cassette tapes from my clasmates and play their songs over and over again…

I’ve had a lot of fave songs, fave song artists, fave boy bands but only one group remains in  my heart – my boys – the backstreet boys. Coz ya know what? these boys won’t break my heart. bwahahaha! spell a.d.i.k! wait ..wait… tama na about that… di alam ni jepoy pinagsusulat ko..hahaha! baka ma check point ako.. L.A.G.O.T! ! ! nyahaha! anyway, okay lang yun… i’m just reminiscin’ the past. hehehe!

I used to be soooo Backstreet boys fanatic. Well, I really have to support my Ex. yah! For everyone out there who does not know my past yet. Yes. Nick Carter is my Ex… he is my Ex supah Idol… hahaha!

Though the original member Kevin Richardson left the group on June 23, 2006 to begin a family according to a report. The four boys remain to be unbreakable. Nick Carter, Howie Dorough, Brian Littrell and  A.J. McLean are still rockin’ the chart and my h.e.a.r.t whew!

I’m quite busy right now with my fafa Jeff ever, so i’m no longer updated with them anymore. But once in a while I try to read news about ’em, so I’ll be able to update myself with the latest buzz about ’em.

just wanna write…

May 4, 2008

It’s 4 o’clock in the morning, I’m supposed to be asleep at this moment. But I can’t. A lot of things are coming in and out of my mind. My heart wants to say something. My pen wants to write something. Okay fine. Pagbigyan.

I’m excited about the week to come. My friends and I are planning to enroll in a gym. whoa! Healthy living daw drama namin ngayon. hehe! Yesterday, Shekiki and I dropped by to our office clinic. We stepped on the weighing scale and to our surprise, we both weigh 50 kilos. OMG! I’m happy to know tht I’ve gained weight, unlike before – super duper skinny ever. But still, I’m a bit upset knowing that my waistline measures….28 and a half inches…huhuhu! it’s alarming….waaaaaaaaah! Jeff teases me about this. oh no! NOW, I;m really set, I wanna have a fit and healthy body. Hoping for a positive result.

I’m yawning, but still wide awake…..

Real Winner

April 14, 2008

 

Who would not want to win the awesome asus eeepc laptop? sure thing. everybody who submitted their entry aims for the grand prize. Count me in!

An hour ago, I logged on to candy mag website to check the status of my entry. Surprisingly, I got one comment from a blogger – (**you know who you are and I thank you for that!**); rated 5 out of 5 and had earned 2 votes! yepey! For my co-bloggers who voted for me, I got two heartfelt words for yah: THANK YOU! Keep on voting for me guys! hehehe!

I declare myself As A winner! **wink** I know there are blogs out there which are better than mine. But for me, having the courage to sign up and join this contest and the feeling that I am now exploring the world of blogging – no longer contented by just being with the four corners of my blog pages and being able to meet sweet, pretty new faces- makes me a winner! When someone out there pays attention to my work, at least give some glance on it – right then and there, that very moment, I already won!
I believe that Only the deserving ones shall get the prizes. I am not losing my hope, I am not giving up to win it. But if I may not win the prize, I will still be thankful for I know in my heart that I’ve got the chance to become at least one of the best.

May The prize be with someone who truly deserves it! Keep rockin’ candy girls. candy Mag Rules

For Fun sake: I am candymag Blog Nominee

April 13, 2008


Its cool. Eversince, I am a Candy mag fanatic. I get to learn a lot of stuffs from other teens point of view about life, friendship and relationships including fashion and health. Name it and you’ll be surprise that candy Mag has all of these things to offer!

I am a candy girl. A candy girl actively participates in everything that life offers her. I just don’t want to read, I will interact and discover the beauty of life with other Candy girls out there.

So here I am, wanna share my life too. Nominated my personal website. Like what I said: This blog shows how I positively deal with my life. Its all about loving, laughing and learning. I neither want to be credited for this nor seek an attention from anybody. I am doing this because this is want makes me happy.

Happy browsing.

what would be the standard of success?

April 3, 2008

Everyone of us has different point of view when it comes to success – how they are able to call an every encounter in life a success.

Success depends on person’s personality and his goal in life. Success for me is to live, laugh, learn things from the jourrney of my life and learn things out of my mistakes and to love and be loved in return.

Being a simple person, my standard for success would be simple also. To see the people around me happy, my family, friends and my love ones — that would be considered as my most successful moment. I see to it that everyday would be a successful one.

I would be a sucessful person If I would be able to get what I need – not to be popular; I don’t need fame. Not to be rich; it’s not that I don’t need money. It’s something within me. Respect and love from the people whom I love, is all I need.  In addition, I would be successful if I have all the money and TIME for my family.

There is only one keyword for success. It would be LOVE. If there is love in our hearts, everything would be positive. Positivity would mean all the possibility — to become whatever who I want to be…to be successful by all means!

Let’s celebrate LOVE

April 3, 2008

Isn’t it cool if we celebrate Heart’s day everyday?

Popularly known as Valentine’s day. Puso day.. Heart’s day… Whatever! It only means one thing – celebration for love. Oh yeah love – the only thing in this world everybody is interrested of, makes everybody say Oh lala… hahaha!

When it comes to LOVE , everybody has something to say about it — be it bitter or sweet..

On Valentine’s day, it isn’t necessary to buy your partner an expensive gifts. What’s most important is to show your sincerest and honest love for your partner. After all, LOVE doesn’t cost a thing.

Come to think of it.. It’s cool to celebrate Valentine’s everyday. Love is there always.. Atleast, there’s peace and harmony on Earth.. Coz instead of making war, you’ll make love.. good isn’t it? Let’s make Earth a Heavenly one.<wink>

Yes! It is really cool to celebrate Valentine’s everyday. Opz.. don’t yah worry about gifts.. you need not to give an expensive gift everyday.. unless your rich. But like what I said LOVE don’t cost a thing. <Oh well, that’s for me, ewan ko sa iba .. wihihihi! > Just a simple smile, thank you, warmest hug and sweetest I love you is enough. Be sincere! That is the secret of it…

Happy Puso Everyone!

LOVE: DIFFERENT POINT OF VIEW

April 3, 2008

IF we will all live in doubts, there is no way we can experience the true happiness, the true meaning of LOVE.

A good friend of mine once asked me, “what if he’s not the one and you’re not meant to be?” Referring to me and my significant other — our relationship! Actually, I have been asked many times by exactly the same question. Way back in college, another good friend of mine confessed tome that she thought, Jeff and I will not survive the relationship,considering that he is in Manila having a training for seamanship and Iam still in my third year in college. I’m thankful to God that despite the distance, we have overcomed all the trials that came our way. We haveproved to them that distance isn’t a hindrance for pursuing the relationship. I am not saying that what Jeff and I have is a perfect relationship. Never did I claimed that.. never will I. Our relationship has its ups and downs, sometimes smooth sailing, we’ve been through a lot of storms, sometimes we’re on the rocks, like what other couples are experiencing. However with God’s help we are able to survive… to go on.. to realize that we need each other and we truly love each other.

Going back to the question of my good friend. “what if he’s not the one and were not meant to be?” I told her “e di not meant to be… I mean.. habang kami..habang love nya ako..habang love ko sya. I’m gonna give my all..After all, Love is taking a risk.

Yes. Love is a risk. As the saying goes, “To love is to risk not being loved in return. To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure, but risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.” I would rather risk and fail, than NOT to risk at all. Same thing as taking the risk and experienced to love and be loved or don’t risk anything at all and never experience being happy.

She told me. Yes I’m right but not too much. It is taking risk and everything but not like that. I told her “Pag puro ka what if’s wala mangyayari. I mean give everything you have,, give everything you can give coz you only have once in a lifetime to experience great love. Why would you hold back your feelings, is it just becuase your afraid to fail in the end? What if you are really meant to be? Are you gonna let your partner suffer because all you have in your heart is doubt? I guess the right words should be, give all the best in you… give all the best that you can give. I don’t want to regret in the end.

She told me that she does’nt want me to be hurt. That I am wrong. I should have leave something for myself. Coz what if we are not meant to be together in the end, she’s afraid I’m might just break down and think of not pursuing my life anymore.

For me, if ever we are not meant to be, I am not afraid of the consequences that might occur in the long run, coz I know God has planned good things for us.He knows that what Jeff and I feel for each other is genuine, so He will not just let bad things happen to us. We just leave everything up to Him for He knows everythig that’s best for us. If ever we fail.. atleast I will never regret everything for I know that once in my life I have been loved and has loved genuinely.

My friend told me she has been there already. She has given up everything. Thought it is forever, but the relationship had failed. Guess, it’s a case to case basis. We should have not generalize things. I dunno. Coz if this is what everybody would think of… what is now the true essence of LOVE if all you have is doubt? As long as I am happy, I will not worry that things would end up. Just cherish every moment -treasure every single second when you are together.

All I can say is thank you to my friend. Thank you for the wonderful conversation. Thank you for the good question. Thank you for opening up my mind. After we have talked, I realize… God is so good to me for He has never implanted any doubts in my heart when it comes to loving Jeff. I trust him a lot. I love him.

After reading these. In know what’s on your mind again. “LOVE na
naman? walang katapusang LOVE”. First thing, bakit ba? blog ko ‘to,
wlang pakialamanan. Besides, I don’t owe anybody an explanation why the hell I am so inlove with LOVE?

OH gosh… I will neither further explain nor make the discussion long
about why are people being so mean.. These lines goes for you .. MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!duh!

Rhiz calm down.

Atleast I’m not like other people, who’s playing the game of love…basta kami happy!